There are a lot of men who mistake some of the ways that their girlfriend or wife will conduct themselves. It’s hard to understand both sexes because they don’t think alike. Women think more with their heart and feelings, while men tend to think about logic and reality. After you read this, you will be able to better understand your mate and you will be able to have better and stronger relationship.
1) The Confusing Silence
Men assume that if women are not talking then they must be mad, however that is not always the case. The silent treatment is given a lot after arguments; however, it does not always mean that silence is a key tip that she is mad. First, sometimes women just need some time where they can just relax. After you have a hard day at work, all you want to do is read a book, watch some TV, or just sit in silence. That does not mean that she is mad. It may mean things like she is tired, she wants to relax, she wants to be by herself, but it is not always about the people around her.
2) Obsessive cleaning
You will notice that your girlfriend or wife is cleaning and really scrubbing the dishes, however, it may seem like she is mad or frustrated. Some women do obsessively clean when they are frustrated, but there are many women who just like to be clean. Cleaning to women has nothing to do with relationships or how they see you. Not all women feel the need to clean up because their mate won’t or that their mate is messy. Sometimes a woman will just get in the mood to clean.
3) Fighting
Have you ever come home with a seemingly happy day and just end up getting yelled at by your lady. You may think that she is really unhappy with you, but the truth is that you’re not the problem. You will find that things in her day will make her feel awful and with you seeming happy would be when the saying “misery loves company” comes into play. The next time she jumps you before you even kick off your shoes, maybe you should take a moment to ask her what it really is about.
4) Her confusing behavior of crying
Women have so much emotion in them; they have to cry every now and then and do not take it personally. Something that you do or do not do may set them off, but it is usually not about you. It can be a lot things all balled up inside her. You may come home to your wife or girlfriend sitting in the dark crying, however, it is not always about anything. Women just need to cry. Some have a schedule where they watch sad movies and they have a good cry. It is usually nothing personal; just ask her if there is anything you can do or not do and make her a cup of tea.
5) Nagging
You may think that your woman is always on your case all day long, however, there is something underneath the obvious that is bothering her. The first thing that you are going to want to ask her is what this fit is really about. Ask her about her day, ask her about her mother, ask her about anything that might have set her of to release some anguish on you. Nagging is more from frustrations and if you ask her what it is that she would like you do, like chores (which both partners should have); you’ll be able to reduce the nagging.
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